Story of ku ku-ki ki kiii..!!!
Since last one month i was having strange experience of encountering my ownself, before to this month i have been very excited for having revelation of inner silence, but as soon as i was getting to know more about inner voice i started to Preach, No wonder and but its obvious that as we get to know some thing beautiful we start toshare things with the nearest and the dearest persons, without knowing wheather they are interested or not.
The more i was sharing to the more people,the more they were skipping away from me, i wasn't aware what was goinig on, finally it came infront me, in a form like this- All of sudden one of my close friend stopped talking to me, , i was wonder struck, what could be the reason, when i asked him, he simply avoided me and said offcourse you are not the reason nor it is related abiout you ,some other bothering him. Wel,l understood some thing went wrong with me only, I was investigating myself, finally it was my sister who gave me another jerk when she said "asking you a question means i have to spare 15 minutes for the answer..!!! , what was that, I thought how can she say like that?,Am doinig only good,I started to think myself,observing more into me where I was doing wrong, why am losing my close people like this. After all what I was doing to them, just share nice good thoughts whats wrong in it?, which would highly useful to them obviously, what could be the reason?, With Mentors grace, today I got the answer when I was reading book , How i raised myself from failure to success in selling, by Frank bettger,
There was a line written , which was an eye opener it says "Over talking is one of the worst of all social faults, if you have it, even your best friend wont tell you, but he will dodge you". Oh! my goodness, as i read this line the lightening wisdom struck to me. At once i understood what is over talking i was doing, i might have lost so many friends due to this quality and how my close people dodging me.They don't have any intention of leaveing me but they cant tell , how badly I was boring them, they may knew it very well , the things which i was sharing is the best thing, but they are not ready to take it, they have different mindset all together as of now, which i couldn't simply understood it before this incident.Then after I remembered my mentor who once shared the story of koel( cuckoo) and they bring up their their kids.
The Asian Koel is a brood parasite that lays its eggs in the nests of crows and other hosts, who raise its young. They are unusual among the cuckoos in being largely frugivorous as adults.(source wikipedia) This is well known that koyel keep their young one in the nest of crows, and both have black in colour babies so crow keep on feeding all the babies a like. but interesting thing is the koel keep little distance from the nest and circle it and sing beautiful voice kuu kuuu...which reaches to the baby koel which is in the nest of crow along with the crow babies. surprisingly this baby koel never opens its mouth and start singing or sharing her beautiful voice , until it grows fully and can fly on its own, If the baby open its mouth in between and said ki kiii kii, it would be the last day of her life, because the babies start alarming their mother crow cited a strange voice among them, with this new voice,ki kii kiiii..as they all are kaa ..kaaa, they would wonder from where this kii kii came from .Those koel babies who are obedient to their mother never opens their mouth, till they learn to fly on their own (incubation period).
Morale of the story ku kuu - ki ki kiiiii, is never open your mouth until your are in incubation period, Uptil it is over and you begin to take flight on your own,Be shut up!!!!, or else immature minds will throw you away, to kill you.
My mentor used to say be like koel baby listen to the voice of the guide who may be at distance but continuously he keep on teaching things to you , learn those things, till you finally learn to fly on your own, before that never open your mouth.I could not paid my ears to his word, and paid the price.
That's the mistake i have to admit and now i will learn from this mistake. so my battle begins now , I need to fight myself to over come my short coming of over talking. I wish to succeed soon.
That's a beautiful story..blessed is a koel baby which can listen to its mother koel.i pray to acquire the strength to succeed . When I read this I could relate to my problem too.thank u for sharing the wonderful thing.
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