Dont get lost in gravity..!!!

    My dear friend,

 "Until you have learned to be tolerant with those who do not always agree with you; until you have cultivated the habit of saying some kind word of those whom you do not admire; until you have formed the habit of looking for the good instead of the bad there is in others, you will be neither successful nor happy."....................           Napolean Hill

 So what..!!! you may say..."you may know it already"

the Question is wheather we know it or not thats not the point , the point is wheather we apply it or not., Thats where we fail most of the time.

Some say we do but it is not consistantly happening, and than we come to the same point where we started. If thats the case than we should know ourselves more, we are not putting efforts to that an extent, which can  really deceive gravity..!!!..Matlab kya ?.

it means the thing which is gone upwards must come down..!!! you might be heard tht isnt it....ya thats true..due to gravity...ya i know , you may say..!!! , The answer here is unless we Go out of gravity , the things will keep on coming down..Right

..is there an point in this to learn ?,ya may be or may be not....for me .ya it is.

we normally put efforts to replace our old habits if we are fortunate to spot them, we do cos we are good people,..mm..mmm what happens it doesn't work  that way, they  simply return after some time , and we are perplexed, iiiiiiiii there are back again kaise hua..you might think think that "you have put  all your efforts and learned a new but phir bhi..!

At first place one need to understand

1)how the habits are formed,

2) how long we  been with that habit old one.

3) how long we are practicing to make shift ourselves to new.

4) who is stopping us to leave the old habit.

5) Can we differentiate between the perceived need and real needs.

What it came to my observation is we dont realise  that we need to put our efforts in such a way that it  may triggers a such an inertia(belly fire) which can propel us to take out of gravity and we will not in a zone where the pullback forces work.than only we could able to do what we wanted to do..for ever.. For such an effort we need to delearn our old habits first ,and by constantly developing our insight of our old habit in detail ,why and how it is formed, which can effectively give us an insight that this is absolutely useless habit which is giving me trouble to progress of my life, that enlightenment can make us to delearn , after once we offload ourselves and as we are slaves of habit we need something to replace the old one so we quickly learn the new one,but continuance of the new one is not easy.

There are demons sitting right in the centre of the drawing room of the mind on couch, who dictates from there saying "What are you doing,is this what you wanted, how comfortable with you old habits and see with this new one all the troubles appearing there after, why are u following him.?"...That's there you pay thought to your demonic force and You slow down and skip your schedule for one day saying to yourself, that its just a day i can make up later, cant i be lazy  even for a one day!!!   who is going to know. if skip the schedule, am i not enough matured to understand the consequences , i can handle if some thing goes wrong but right i have to be like this , i cant take it more, just one time...poisonous words... you demon listened them, that's where he becomes strong and peep in you , change faces and come in front of you like a well wisher and start deviating you. until one day you find yourself in slump of dirt..trying to get out and than u will know ohh..i caught into this again ...!!!!

Demons are very dangerous they change faces very quickly and come in white clothes(DEMONS ARE NOT OFTEN devil looking with horns on their head or teeth coming our or bad faces..They are very sweetly looking, cutely taking, intimate forces which are very near to us in very soft manner behaving like friends.as COMFORTERS) hiding themselves inside their real intentions. and often we cant spot them , unless when they show their real face. My way to encounter to the demons are to continuously cultivating a  process of observing ourselves, knowing our emotions, our thoughts our character and our responsibilities.The basic rule which i believe is
 A) To know yourself that what is our swadharma(our own religion) as human beings what  have some responsibilities  on our shoulder we should do on the daily basis that should be kept in front of us every day., and track us in the night also, how much we deviated from that, after days of observation only we could know that we stand nowhere and we can often found that

1) we don't keep our commitments,(in relationship we think its take it granted way They should understand it)

2) we have no accountability, ...( we don't track our things we do every thing else esp whats happening which irrelevant to our goals)

3)we are in comprehensive thinking without a plan or strategy.

4) we could know that, we don't keep our promises in fact we justify it  beautifully giving excuses for not keeping the promise, be bury them the responsibility down below the ground and make a beautiful garden on the top with flowers in form of EXCUSE..(some people cant spot their excuses) actually its quite deep rooted in our being so we think that we are like that we don't that we are with a disease called excucitis..!!!,( i read it in MTB)

5) We counsel ourselves very beautifully with a perceived dream,and often search for people who support us and we take a judgement that we are Correct in our thinking.

B) I found a way which i call a contra way to encounter our enemy habit, if feel anger counter with a laughter..if  you feel guilt counter with by doing some kind of exercise to release the extra negative energy formed inside.like that we can encounter the demons which attack us in different way.

C) Be ware of appreciation : most people caught in this if we get appreciation we get caught and let our doors open to demons to walk in ..they make space sit silently as if they are tamed now and do nothing just waiting for a moment of opportunity the day when u fail in your expectation that day u can observer how strongly they come out and you would be surprised that from this came how could i burst out i thought i was changed. I  say to my friend that neither jump when u get success nor u go sucks when u fail just stay normal cos this is only a milestone not a destination.
Don't get lost in gravity..!!!!!